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Series: Pinter & Martin Why It Matters 3Author: Maddie McMahonBinding: paperback, with flapsFormat: 172 x 111 mmPages: 160Illustrations: nonePinter & Martin edition available: worldwideTranslation rights: Pinter & Martin
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Many women know, and research confirms, that having an experienced female birth companion, who is neither a health professional nor a part of their social circle, can have a tangible positive effect on their experience of childbirth.
Why Doulas Matter is a comprehensive discussion of how a doula can offer expectant and new parents information and practical and emotional support to improve their experience of birth and early parenting.
I love that near the beginning of Why Doulas Matter, MM points out that "on one level, doulas do not matter." The invisible but steadfast presence of a doula, and how much difference she can make to the experience of birth, is the most important lesson this book can teach you.This is a book about what doulas do and how they do it, and it also tells you what they are thinking about while they're doing it. Maddie's voice comes through very clearly, and unlike other books in the Why It Matters series, this one is far more personal than political. One exception to this is her mini-rant about the politics of breastfeeding, where the most passionate passion of a very passionate woman is clearly revealed.Why Doulas Matter contains much useful information about birth and breastfeeding, woven into chapters about labour, meeting your baby, breastfeeding, and the postnatal period. One thing I felt was missing was a little more history of women supporting women during childbirth, setting the question of why doulas matter in the context of the 21st Century western world.This book would be particularly useful for people thinking about what sort of support they might need during and after birth, whether or not that support comes from a doula. It would also be useful for both new and experienced doulas who want to reflect on their role. It answers all the questions you might have about doulas, and much more.
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The more I read this book, the more I love it! It's such a lovely read. It not only makes me want to be a better doula, but it also makes me realise just how much My local hospital did to aid my own breastfeeding and bonding experiences. Language may not have been perfect, but I can tick so many boxes for what their amazing midwives did. 😊❤️ Highly recommend this book!
1 of 1 people found this review helpful.
For anyone thinking of becoming a Doula, anyone working in this field or for parents to be this book is a must.It is informative , easy to read and a real insight into the world of a Doula.This book is beautifully and thoughtfully written by the author and I cannot recommend it enough .
This is a heart-felt book about all the ways that doulas support new parents, and what a huge difference it can make to have a kind woman to help around the time of birth. Made me want to get pregnant just so I could have this nurturing!
Anyone who has anything to do with birth or new mothers should read this book! It's a beautiful testament to the work done by doulas, but it's a lot more than that. This book gives an accurate account of the perinatal period for mothers and fathers. It discusses their needs in emotional, biological, and social terms. The book is concerned with exploring why anyone would choose to involve a doula in their experience of becoming a parent. Two of the most interesting points made are the effects having a doula have on the probability of a caesarian and breastfeeding success. If employing a doula can help you to avoid a major operation, with all the risks and inconveniences involved, and enable you to feed your baby in the way that is healthiest for both of you, what on earth could you argue against! However, Maddie makes it clear that doulaing is not about supporting any particular choices other than the choices made by the parents themselves. This is important, because I think many people consider doulas to be the preserve of the natural, "hippy" set, pursuing natural birth, breastfeeding, and other practices of this type. In reality, doulaing is about supporting the parents in their own choices and their own reality, without any other agenda.This book is not only helpful for those considering using a doula themselves, but also for those who might come into contact with people beginning their parenting journey. It gives an understanding of what a new or expectant parent might need from any supporter, and why they might need it. The tone of this book is informal and very easy to read, The informative chapters are backed up with quotations from doulas and doula clients, and Maddie's gentle caring language shines through. If you're interested in learning more, Maddie has a lovely blog. Check it out!
A really enjoyable and informative book, filled with lots of little gems of wisdom and driven by a steady background beat of love, compassion and respect for the precious journey to becoming parents.Not only does it clarify what a doula does, it is also an excellent guide to understanding what support new families may need. Well worth a read if you're supporting a new family in any capacity or growing your very own.
Why Doulas Matter is a fantastically comprehensive book detailing how doulas support families in a wide-ranging diverse way. It describes details of the what, the when, and the how. All the questions any family will ask about how a doula can support them through pregnancy, birth, postnatally and how – this book answers precisely. It explains how unique every scenario is and how individual relationships are between the doula, the mother and the father and the positive relationship with other health care professionals. It provides a totally non judgemental view of modern day families and demonstrates the overwhelmingly positive experience that having a doula can add to the experience of transition into parenthood.It’s also a book that supports women. There’s a plethora of information in there about birth, what supports positive birth, birth choices, postnatal support, breastfeeding – almost like having a doula in your pocket. There’s also a lot of support in here for new doulas, such as myself, about relationship building, boundaries and ethics, and intelligent tea drinking.There was so much in this book that I felt was fantastically written. Specifically I felt the feeding section was extremely well put together – this was not a ‘how to’ manual but more having the understanding of how having emotional support can positively influence any mothers feeding journey and can make breastfeeding successful, however, she also includes how positive having this support when a mother decides she doesn’t want to breastfeed is.There were parts of the books that were covered really well – freebirth, perinatal mental health illness, multiples (of which being a mother of multiples and having supported large numbers of parents of multiples I could relate to), and the birth of a child who has died.It’s an accessible books written in plain English yet absolutely full of pertinent information from the spiritual, cultural and technical. It really discusses how tribes have disappeared and culturally how we are left to parent on our own and how the doula can support the whole family in our current society – something I really don’t think we understand or accept enough about why parenting now is so challenging.There were many of the personal reflections that really touched me – the voices of parents and doulas exemplifying what a special relationship, when the mix is right, it can be.This is a great book for those considering doula support, for any doula – especially relatively new doulas, for those working with doulas and actually anyone who wants to know what a doula does including husbands, partners, relatives and friends of doulas (I’ll be lending a copy to my mum and husband). It’s fantastic for bringing ‘Why Doulas Matter’ to the general public and mainstreaming how doulas can support many families in very different ways.Wishing Maddie all the very best with this book and a huge congratulations on writing such a lovely, well-written book.
If there's such a thing as a "doulamoon" I do believe I've spent the past few days immersed in one reading this amazing book! Having had the honour to meet the author in person, I was very excited to hear she was willing to bare her soul and share some of her immense wisdom with the world. I was definitely *not* disappointed; reading along I felt as if I was sitting across from a friend sharing a cuppa and a chat whilst being gently moulded and encouraged to do less, listen more and care more deeply. If I could recommend one book to those who doula, think they may be called, would like to explore if a doula is right for their family or work with doulas in a professional capacity this is it.
3 of 3 people found this review helpful.
I have read this book twice in the very short time that I have owned it and I suspect I will read it many more times. This book reinforces everything that made me want to become a doula and makes me sure that I have chosen the right path to follow in life. Having had the pleasure of meeting Maddie and attending her amazing doula preparation course, I am sure this is only a tiny percentage of what she could have written as her passion for the work she does is immense. I think this book will not only help aspiring doulas such as myself, but existing doulas, members of the medical profession and women thinking about hiring a doula along with their family members. I think the book beautifully debunks many myths surrounding the work doulas do and gets across the love that doulas have in the hearts for all the women they assist.
What a wonderful, inspiring little book, packed full of stories, quotes, insights and information on the impact doulas can have.So many would find it useful, as it's a great read for those thinking about having a doula, those who know nothing about doulas, midwives, obstetricians, doulas themselves and for me, very importantly, doula's families. Finally I have something to share with my family which sums up my passion for being a doula so perfectly. My daughter now has the book to read and is loving it!!
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